BDSM practices

Practices

Here you will find the practices I offer in my sessions. Every session is agreed individually; this overview helps you sort your wishes, experience, and limits more clearly.

Fucking MachineAnalMachine

Anal (fucking machine)

Anal stimulation using a sex machine that performs rhythmic thrusting movements.

BallbustingGroin KickCrotch Kick

Ballbusting

Targeted strikes, kicks, or pressure to the testicles as a pain practice.

BondageRestraintsControl

Bondage

Tying up or restraining, e.g., with ropes, cuffs, cloth, or straps. The focus can be on restricted movement, helplessness, aesthetics, or control.

Cock and Ball TortureBall TortureGenital Torture

CBT

“Cock and Ball Torture” (CBT): Pain or pressure stimuli to the penis/testicles (e.g., clamps, strikes, pulling).

ElectroElectricityStimulus

Electrical play

Painful or stimulating impulses through electrical shocks, e.g. with electro-based impact tools (such as an electric whip/electric paddle). This can range from a...

FixationRestraintsBondage

Fixation

The sub is secured on the bondage mattress in an almost completely immobile position. The appeal often lies in absolute control, helplessness, and the feeling of...

FloggerWhipPain Play

Flogging (flogger)

Strikes with a flogger (or a similar impact implement) on suitable body areas (often back/buttocks/thighs).

Foot FetishShoe FetishFeet

Foot/Shoe fetish

Erotic focus on feet (looking, touching, massaging, kissing, smelling, etc.) and/or shoe's.

Golden ShowerNSShower

Golden shower

“Natursekt” (urine) from the Mistress (onto the body or into the mouth). This practice takes place in the shower while the sub lies on the floor and the Mistress...

Power DynamicDegradationRules

Humiliation/degradation

A roleplay in which the sub is deliberately “put down” (e.g., through tasks or rules). The focus is usually on the power dynamic within the scene, not on real...

HypnosisTranceSuggestion

Hypnosis

Hypnosis in my BDSM sessions is not a magic trick and not a loss of control. I use language, focus, breathing, and suggestion to guide you into a calm trance...

JOIInstructionControl

Joi (jerk-off instruction)

“Jerk Off Instruction” (JOI): The Mistress gives instructions for masturbation (pace, pauses, rules).

ChastityKeyholdingControl

Key holding

The sub wears a chastity cage (which he must bring himself); the Mistress keeps the key and decides whether/when it is opened. For many, this is more...

MilkingControlMachine

Milcking (machine)

Forced or controlled ejaculation using aids (the Mistress uses a high-quality electric masturbation machine) or “ejaculation control” with rules.

MummificationWrapImmobility

Mummification

Wrapping/“packaging” the sub (e.g. with plastic wrap) to strongly restrict freedom of movement. The appeal often lies in helplessness, tightness, calmness, and...

Needle PlayNeedlesHygiene

Needle play

Sensations using sterile single-use needles and/or needle tools such as a needle wheel. Stimulation with special gloves/accessories with spikes (e.g. “spiky...

Nipple TortureClampsPulling

Nipple torture

Stimuli to the nipples, e.g., pinching, clamping, pulling, or temperature play.

NylonStockingsPantyhose

Nylon fetish

The Mistress wears nylon items (e.g., stockings or pantyhose).

Pet PlayAnimal RoleCollar

Pet play

Roleplay in which a person takes on the role of an animal (e.g., dog, cat, pony). This can include behavior, sounds/speech, movement, gear, or tasks—depending on...

SpankingDisciplinePain Play

Spanking

Strikes with the hand or an implement on the buttocks/thighs. Intensity and rhythm vary; it is often about sensation/pain play or discipline roleplay.

SpittingSalivaControl

Spitting

Spitting is used as an element in the scene (e.g., onto the body or into the mouth).

TicklingRestraintControl

Tickle Torture

Intensive tickling play, often combined with restraint, in which the Mistress decides when, where, and for how long the submissive is tickled. For many, the...

TramplingSteppingBody Pressure

Trampling

The Mistress stands on or steps on the sub’s body (with shoes or barefoot).

WaxHeatControl

Wax play

Warm wax (from candles suitable for this purpose) is dripped onto the skin. The appeal is the mix of heat, brief pain, and control; safe temperatures and...